On yesterdays Oprah, she ventured to the very mysterious Polygamy Ranch in Texas. This very interesting place creates so many questions in the minds of most of us living in the “outside world”. There are both interesting and disturbing aspects of life here. Most of which I will not be discussing. However, one topic that I find interesting is polygamy.
Polygamy is a concept extremely foreign to most of us. The idea of sharing your husband and home with another women can be concerning to say the least. I however, am not sure that it is the worst model for a marriage that there could be. If looked into this further, I think that we would find that there could be benefits to this model.
Imagine coming home from work and it being Amber your sister wife's turn to cook dinner, April’s turn to clean the kitchen, and Allison’s turn to give the kids baths. What would you do with all of that free time? The sharing of household responsibilities, I would imagine is priceless. Not to mention never having to use the old “I have a head ache” excuse again. Instead it’s simple “Don’t touch me, it’s not my day…down the hall you go!” Many women could probably stand to share vacations and gifts in exchange for the “days off” of both household and marriage responsibilities.
The amount of people that it takes to run many American households can add up. Consider the amount of money spent in households with nannies and housekeepers. Now there is no need. You simply split the duties with your “sister wife”. You will never again use the phrase “If only I could clone myself”. Your husband has already cloned you.
Now of course there are women who say that this so sexist, why should men get multiple wives and women not get multiple husbands. These women are clearly not thinking straight. Who would want multiple husbands? That is another person to cook for, another person that can’t find the hamper, another person to hear complain, and yet one more reason why you can’t just go to sleep as soon as you get in bed when you are tired. I believe that upon careful consideration no woman would actually want multiple husbands.
My personality and believes will however not allow me to participate in such behaviors nor am I condoning this. I am simply saying while there are many negatives, there may be more positives than we may think to the polygamy marriage model. Besides, with all my shoes, no man could afford to have multiples of me!
Today's "4 the Luv" Fab Find:
I absolutely love today’s shoe. It is significantly more expensive than previous choices, but it’s beautiful and I can’t help but to admire it. This Pura Lopez blush peep toe pump is the perfect pink for spring. It is sure to accessorize any outfit. I hope you enjoy looking at it as much as I have!http://www.footcandyshoes.com/istar.asp?a=6&id=N604!LOP&csurl=%2Fistar.asp%3Fa%3D29%26dept%3DF%26manufacturer%3DLOP%26category%3DREG%26
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Monday, March 30, 2009
Tom and Jerry
Most people know “Tom and Jerry” as a classic cartoon that is watched by many different ages, shown in various languages, and loved by many people across the world. If ask what is “Tom and Jerry” it would probably be described as a famous television cartoon about a cat and a mouse that was established in the 40s. I however would argue that it is the current model for dating; the cat and mouse game.
The cat chases the mouse and the mouse teases the cat. This dating ritual can be seen when going out and all the “cats” are chasing “mice” or even through people whom have already established a sort “relationship”. But, is it really a relationship if you are still playing games? As related to Tom and Jerry, both parties can have equal roles in engaging in tormenting each other and at times they have equal enjoyment. At what point are games no longer acceptable?
Is the chase the only thing to be found interesting in a relationship? What happens after the prey has been caught? It seems that the interim between the chase and whatever is next is where it gets blurry. Is it so difficult to keep a relationship “spicy” without playing games? Is it really that uninteresting once they actually call you back?
And then there are the “rules”. Don’t call her the day after the date, wait three days before calling him, say you are busy the next time they ask you out…REALLY!!! Is this what is necessary and required to enjoy the company of the opposite sex?
I am no expert on the ins and outs of dating and will not use this venue to pretend to be. I however will caution people to engage fairly. Tom, if you are interested in only the chase, make for certain that Jerry’s into it. Jerry, if you enjoy teasing Tom with your wittiness and opportunistic personality, make sure he likes the chase. Most importantly Tom, when you find a good mouse, do what it takes to hang on to it. Remember, Jerry always gets away!
Today's "4 the Luv" Fab Find:
Today’s Fab Find is a sexy spin on a traditional Mary Jane. No need to explain why Mary Janes have worked for years and with so many things. Just check them out:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=CL-237909&page=5&cgname=OSSHUPUMZZZ&rfnbr=5996&cm_mmc=CJ-_-1909792-_-2178999-_-Product%20Catalog
And for my ladies “Ballin on a budget”here is a less expensive spin:
http://store.alloy.com/item.do?categoryID=&itemID=48708
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!
The cat chases the mouse and the mouse teases the cat. This dating ritual can be seen when going out and all the “cats” are chasing “mice” or even through people whom have already established a sort “relationship”. But, is it really a relationship if you are still playing games? As related to Tom and Jerry, both parties can have equal roles in engaging in tormenting each other and at times they have equal enjoyment. At what point are games no longer acceptable?
Is the chase the only thing to be found interesting in a relationship? What happens after the prey has been caught? It seems that the interim between the chase and whatever is next is where it gets blurry. Is it so difficult to keep a relationship “spicy” without playing games? Is it really that uninteresting once they actually call you back?
And then there are the “rules”. Don’t call her the day after the date, wait three days before calling him, say you are busy the next time they ask you out…REALLY!!! Is this what is necessary and required to enjoy the company of the opposite sex?
I am no expert on the ins and outs of dating and will not use this venue to pretend to be. I however will caution people to engage fairly. Tom, if you are interested in only the chase, make for certain that Jerry’s into it. Jerry, if you enjoy teasing Tom with your wittiness and opportunistic personality, make sure he likes the chase. Most importantly Tom, when you find a good mouse, do what it takes to hang on to it. Remember, Jerry always gets away!
Today's "4 the Luv" Fab Find:
Today’s Fab Find is a sexy spin on a traditional Mary Jane. No need to explain why Mary Janes have worked for years and with so many things. Just check them out:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=CL-237909&page=5&cgname=OSSHUPUMZZZ&rfnbr=5996&cm_mmc=CJ-_-1909792-_-2178999-_-Product%20Catalog
And for my ladies “Ballin on a budget”here is a less expensive spin:
http://store.alloy.com/item.do?categoryID=&itemID=48708
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Grinding, Groping, and Grabbing
Since this is the weekend, I found it only suiting that our first “Hot Topic” be relevant to Saturday nights. As my friends and I begin to embark on the Saturday night excursion out I thought I would throw out a very important topic.
I appreciate a good drink and time with friends. I also love to dance. Dancing is not only a natural reaction to music, but is also a fabulous way to burn those martini calories while simultaneously drinking them. It is so frustrating that this simple enjoyment is now almost impossible to enjoy! I ask the question who decided grinding, groping, and grabbing was an acceptable form of meeting a female at a bar or club.
I imagine that one day while out a bold drunk man thought he would try his luck and inappropriately grab a female that they did not know. This female apparently with her low self esteem and demoralizing habits allowed this to happen. The male then called all of his friends, who called all of their friends, who called all of their friends and told them of this new acceptable touching policy. Now suddenly men don’t even gage the female to decide if this behavior is appropriate.
It is now assumed that because you come equipped with breast and an ass that you welcome the three Gs from random men at clubs. Today I let the men of the world know that this is SOLEly unacceptable! We do not appreciate uninvited touching. We do not want you to get so close that we smell your breath first thing upon meeting you. We do not need to be flipped around while dancing. And we most certainly do not want to feel your “member” in our backs when dancing! However, we would like a polite introduction, a non sexual compliment, or an offer to purchase a drink. If you are still confused on how to treat a lady, please refer to the way you would like a man to treat your mother, sister, aunt, or grandmother. And finally would the female who lied and told all the men of the world this was acceptable behavior “Please stand up”, apologize, and close your legs!
Todays “4 the Luv” FAB find:
Thank God, spring is finally here and bold colors are in this year more than ever starting with bold eye shadows all the way down to bold shoes. One easy way to follow trends is with a hot new pair of shoes to add a pop of color to a colorless wardrobe. These FABulous Fuchsia shoes are found on Zappos.com. They are a Pour La Victoire St. Etienne design on Zappos for $175.00 from $283.95. A bit more than yesterday, but definitely a FAB Find. Check them out. They would be hot with a black dress or an apple green shirt. They are sure to brighten any outfit!
http://www.zappos.com/product/7523296/color/1334
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!
I appreciate a good drink and time with friends. I also love to dance. Dancing is not only a natural reaction to music, but is also a fabulous way to burn those martini calories while simultaneously drinking them. It is so frustrating that this simple enjoyment is now almost impossible to enjoy! I ask the question who decided grinding, groping, and grabbing was an acceptable form of meeting a female at a bar or club.
I imagine that one day while out a bold drunk man thought he would try his luck and inappropriately grab a female that they did not know. This female apparently with her low self esteem and demoralizing habits allowed this to happen. The male then called all of his friends, who called all of their friends, who called all of their friends and told them of this new acceptable touching policy. Now suddenly men don’t even gage the female to decide if this behavior is appropriate.
It is now assumed that because you come equipped with breast and an ass that you welcome the three Gs from random men at clubs. Today I let the men of the world know that this is SOLEly unacceptable! We do not appreciate uninvited touching. We do not want you to get so close that we smell your breath first thing upon meeting you. We do not need to be flipped around while dancing. And we most certainly do not want to feel your “member” in our backs when dancing! However, we would like a polite introduction, a non sexual compliment, or an offer to purchase a drink. If you are still confused on how to treat a lady, please refer to the way you would like a man to treat your mother, sister, aunt, or grandmother. And finally would the female who lied and told all the men of the world this was acceptable behavior “Please stand up”, apologize, and close your legs!
Todays “4 the Luv” FAB find:
Thank God, spring is finally here and bold colors are in this year more than ever starting with bold eye shadows all the way down to bold shoes. One easy way to follow trends is with a hot new pair of shoes to add a pop of color to a colorless wardrobe. These FABulous Fuchsia shoes are found on Zappos.com. They are a Pour La Victoire St. Etienne design on Zappos for $175.00 from $283.95. A bit more than yesterday, but definitely a FAB Find. Check them out. They would be hot with a black dress or an apple green shirt. They are sure to brighten any outfit!
http://www.zappos.com/product/7523296/color/1334
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!
Friday, March 27, 2009
Welcome
Welcome! SOLEly 4 Luv of Shoes was created as an enjoyable venue to discuss random “hot topics” while sharing the love of retail through great finds and hot deals. With each post you are assured a random thought and a 4 the Luv Shoe find. Your comments are not only welcome, but ENCOURAGED! Enjoy…Cheers
Your first 4 the Luv find:
Today’s Fab Find is on DSW.com. At only $49.95 this shoe is a great buy. With great versatility, this shoe will work nicely with jeans, skirts, Capri pants, and dresses. It is available in two colors. Enjoy double reward points at DSW until March 29th! Receiving reward coupons helps us to make more Fab shoe purchases!
http://www.dsw.com/dsw_shoes/catalog/product.jsp?index=3&category=cat20034&prodId=181153&brand=
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!
Your first 4 the Luv find:
Today’s Fab Find is on DSW.com. At only $49.95 this shoe is a great buy. With great versatility, this shoe will work nicely with jeans, skirts, Capri pants, and dresses. It is available in two colors. Enjoy double reward points at DSW until March 29th! Receiving reward coupons helps us to make more Fab shoe purchases!
http://www.dsw.com/dsw_shoes/catalog/product.jsp?index=3&category=cat20034&prodId=181153&brand=
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!
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