Grinding, Groping, and Grabbing

Since this is the weekend, I found it only suiting that our first “Hot Topic” be relevant to Saturday nights. As my friends and I begin to embark on the Saturday night excursion out I thought I would throw out a very important topic.

I appreciate a good drink and time with friends. I also love to dance. Dancing is not only a natural reaction to music, but is also a fabulous way to burn those martini calories while simultaneously drinking them. It is so frustrating that this simple enjoyment is now almost impossible to enjoy! I ask the question who decided grinding, groping, and grabbing was an acceptable form of meeting a female at a bar or club.

I imagine that one day while out a bold drunk man thought he would try his luck and inappropriately grab a female that they did not know. This female apparently with her low self esteem and demoralizing habits allowed this to happen. The male then called all of his friends, who called all of their friends, who called all of their friends and told them of this new acceptable touching policy. Now suddenly men don’t even gage the female to decide if this behavior is appropriate.

It is now assumed that because you come equipped with breast and an ass that you welcome the three Gs from random men at clubs. Today I let the men of the world know that this is SOLEly unacceptable! We do not appreciate uninvited touching. We do not want you to get so close that we smell your breath first thing upon meeting you. We do not need to be flipped around while dancing. And we most certainly do not want to feel your “member” in our backs when dancing! However, we would like a polite introduction, a non sexual compliment, or an offer to purchase a drink. If you are still confused on how to treat a lady, please refer to the way you would like a man to treat your mother, sister, aunt, or grandmother. And finally would the female who lied and told all the men of the world this was acceptable behavior “Please stand up”, apologize, and close your legs!

Todays “4 the Luv” FAB find:

Thank God, spring is finally here and bold colors are in this year more than ever starting with bold eye shadows all the way down to bold shoes. One easy way to follow trends is with a hot new pair of shoes to add a pop of color to a colorless wardrobe. These FABulous Fuchsia shoes are found on Zappos.com. They are a Pour La Victoire St. Etienne design on Zappos for $175.00 from $283.95. A bit more than yesterday, but definitely a FAB Find. Check them out. They would be hot with a black dress or an apple green shirt. They are sure to brighten any outfit!
http://www.zappos.com/product/7523296/color/1334
*Remember ladies, I am not in any way affiliated with this company or shoe. I am not endorsing the business, I am only admiring the shoe. It’s SOLEly for the luv!